Make these agreements with yourself and live a happy life

These Four Agreements will make your life easier, they will help make the best out of your life and stop hurting yourself with what others do or don’t do. Your mental health has to be you first priority and as you learn to how protect yourself.

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  1. Be Impeccable with your words.

To be able to say, my word is my bond you need to have proven yourself. Speak with virtue mean what you say. Refrain from using phrases that speak against yourself or spreading rumors about others. Use the superiority of your words in the way of truth and love. Let not your words bring bodily or mental harm to others.

Don’t take it to heart

Learn that everything is not about you. Nothing others do is because of you. What others say and do is an expression of their own reality. When you’re invulnerable to the choices and actions of others you won’t be the victim of needless suffering.

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Don’t assume on anything

Find the courage to clear any doubts and to convey what you really want. Communicate with others as clearly as you can to evade misunderstandings, drama, and despair.
Make sure you have said 1 and the receiver heard 1.

Always give your best

Your best is going to change from time to time, it will be distinct from when you’re healthy as opposed to when you’re sick. Under any condition simply do your best and you will avoid self-judgment, self-abuse, and regret.

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